Brendoncare Stildon

Dorset Avenue, East Grinstead RH19 1PZ
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  • Brendoncare Stildon, East Grinstead
Only a short distance from historic East Grinstead’s town centre, Brendoncare Stildon care home comprises a 32 bedroom care home and 11 adjoining extra care apartments. Residents can either stay on a permanent basis or on short term respite care after an illness, operation or when regular carers are away.

High quality nursing care is provided at the care home, which prides itself on ensuring that every resident receives personalised, dignified care. There's a friendly, family atmosphere throughout the care home. Its wellbeing team ensures there is always something interesting going on for those who wish to join in. Activities include seated exercise, music and movement, baking and gardening - all tailored to residents' individual interests.

Its restful, attractive gardens have seating areas which are perfect for spending quiet time with loved ones.

The home is very proud to maintain a 5-star food hygiene rating from the Food Standards Agency (January 2023) and the kitchen staff talk to residents to ensure their needs are always met. These could be dietary, allergy, religious or specific likes and dislikes.

The extra care apartments enable older people to live independently, knowing that care is close at hand 24/7 whenever they need it.

All permanent residents are eligible for Brendoncare's Care for Life. This ensures that once welcomed into the care home, they will not be asked to leave other than in exceptional circumstances.

Care Provided by Brendoncare Stildon

  • Primary Care Categories
  • Older Person Care
  • Physical Disability
  • Respite Care
  • Care Types Provided
  • Nursing Care
  • For a maximum of 32 Service Users
  • Voluntary / Not for Profit Owned
  • Care Offered
  • AIDS/HIV
  • Bariatric Care/Obesity
  • Cancer Care
  • Cerebral Palsy
  • Colitis & Crohn's Disease
  • COPD/Pulmonary Disease
  • Epilepsy
  • Head/Brain Injury
  • Hearing Impairment
  • Multiple Sclerosis
  • Neuropathic
  • Orthopaedic
  • Parkinson's Disease
  • Schizophrenia
  • Speech Impairment
  • Stroke
  • Visual Impairment
  • Other Care Provided
  • Convalescent Care
  • End of Life Care
  • Own GP if required
  • Palliative Care
  • Sheltered Housing

Good to Know

  • Person in charge
  • Annie Burisky (General Manager)
  • Admission Criteria
    • Ages 60+
  • Room Information
    • Single Rooms (32)
    • Couples/Companion Rooms (0)
    • Single Rooms with ensuite Wet Room (32)
  • Care Home Design/Build
    • Purpose Built: Yes
    • Number of floors: 2

Funding & Fees Guide for Brendoncare Stildon

  • Funding Types Accepted
  • Self funding (Private)
  • Local Authority with Top-Up
  • Local Authority
  • NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC) Funding
  • Weekly Charges per Person
    • Self-Funded Nursing Care £1,570 – £1,790
  • The 'from' fees for nursing care are for those eligible for NHS funded nursing care (FNC).
    Respite stays cost an additional 10% per week on the standard fee.
    Anyone who moves in to a Brendoncare home as a permanent resident is eligible for our Care for Life promise. This is a charitable top up, meaning they will never have to move due to lack of funds.


  • (these prices are only a guideline, please contact Brendoncare Stildon to find out the exact price for your requirements)

Facilities

  • Gardens
  • Lift
  • Near Public Transport
  • Own Furniture if required
  • Pet Friendly (or by arrangement)
  • Phone Point in own room
  • Residents Internet Access
  • Residents Kitchenette
  • Smoking not permitted
  • Television point in own room
  • Wheelchair Access
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Brendoncare Stildon has a Review Score of 9.8 (9.810) out of 10, based on 18 reviews in the last 2 years. Over all time Brendoncare Stildon has 51 reviews.

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Overall Experience  Overall Experience 5.0 out of 5

Most of our experience over a fortnight has been very positive. My husband has Parkinsons disease and early dementia and all staff have been very caring and delightful in their care for him.

Reply from Annie Burisky, General Manager at Brendoncare Stildon

Thank you for the lovely review. We so enjoyed looking after your husband and look forward to welcoming you both again in the future. Take care Annie.


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Overall Experience  Overall Experience 5.0 out of 5

Mum is always well looked after. She is always kept nice and clean and wearing nicely matching clothes, shoes and socks. Her room is also spotlessly clean and tidy and her bits and bobs are treated with care. She is treated with respect and when awake usually has a nice smile when the carers bring her
tea etc. and stop and chat to her.

Reply from Annie Burisky, General Manager at Brendoncare Stildon

We enjoy having your lovely Mum living with us. Thank you so much for taking the time to give us a review, it is much appreciated.


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Overall Experience  Overall Experience 4.0 out of 5

My relative has lived at Stildon for 5+ years, his needs, medication, likes/dislikes etc were assessed in detail prior to admission and are regularly assessed/updated.
The skilled, caring staff treat him with dignity and respect in a professional but personal, friendly manner.
The individual call
bell system is excellent and callers are responded to immediately.
There is a good diary of activities. The wheelchair accessible, sheltered garden is a pleasure to sit in on a fine day.
There is a lovely welcoming "homely" atmosphere throughout the purpose-built building and the standards of cleanliness, hygiene and laundry are good.
The Manager has an open-door policy for relatives, residents and staff and encourages a good team spirit so staff turnover is low, it is most unusual for agency staff to be called in.
My relative was in 3 other local nursing homes whilst on the waiting list for admission to Stildon - it is by far the best one that he has lived in.

Reply from Annie Burisky, General Manager at Brendoncare Stildon

Thank you so much for taking the time to write such a positive review of our home. At Stildon we aim for a happy family atmosphere. I am so glad that you feel this is the case. Your contribution is much appreciated.


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Overall Experience  Overall Experience 5.0 out of 5

I am a full-time carer to my ex-husband who attends the daycare centre for two days a week. He has been attending for nearly a year now. He thoroughly enjoys his time there. The staff are excellent. Very caring, considerate and professional. They are friendly and very helpful i.e. first class. I am
extremely grateful that this service is available.

Reply from Annie Burisky, General Manager at Brendoncare Stildon

Thank you for your review and good to hear that your ex-husband enjoys his time with us.


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Overall Experience  Overall Experience 5.0 out of 5

A very welcoming, friendly day-care centre. Nothing is too much trouble for the excellent staff, who are very knowledgable about the needs of dementia sufferers. Although my mother only attends one day a week she has grown very fond of the care team. The centre has the benefit of being attached to the
main care home building, so the attendees can often join in with the many entertainments held there. Mum is always in a very good mood when I collect her, having taken part in fun activities such as singing, bingo, gardening and meeting visiting pets and toddler groups. She also enjoys the well-planned lunch menus and many cups of tea. This allows me to enjoy a few hours to myself, knowing that she is in a safe, caring and stimulating environment.

Reply from Annie Burisky, General Manager at Brendoncare Stildon

Thank you for your review. We are pleased to hear your Mum enjoys her time with us and to be able to give some time for yourself.


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Overall Experience  Overall Experience 4.0 out of 5

My wife is always welcomed so genuinely by staff and other users. The menu from which to select her meal is very varied over a period of time. Activities also seem to be both varied and relevant. She also gets to relate to the other occupants when they come together to share activities. The day is vital
to my wife and to myself.

Reply from Home Manager, Home Manager at Brendoncare Stildon

Thank you John for your feedback. We have expanded our activity repertoire recently and are glad your wife is enjoying this.


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Overall Experience  Overall Experience 4.0 out of 5

My husband has recently begun attending Stildon Day Care and has settled down very well.
He has Alzheimer's and staff are very understanding and patient with him. They assist him as necessary but also encourage him to take part in activities for stimulation.

Reply from Annie Burisky, General Manager at Brendoncare Stildon

Thank you for your review and it is good to hear your husband is settling in well.


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Overall Experience  Overall Experience 5.0 out of 5

A really pleasant environment not too large and where everyone knows their residents well. The staff always however busy find time to talk to their residents and help them with even the smallest tasks. Domestic staff can always be found cleaning and tidying which shows when visiting. Clean and tidy
with none of the odours associated with some care homes. Cannot find anything negative to say.

Reply from Annie Burisky, General Manager at Brendoncare Stildon

Thank you for taking the time to give us a review.


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Overall Experience  Overall Experience 4.0 out of 5

I would like to thank 2 lovely ladies who looked after my father in the daycare unit. They are on duty Monday to Thursday.
Unfortunately, he only stayed on 2 Wednesdays. He is now in hospital.
Both of the ladies were kind and compassionate. The daycare unit can be highly recommended.

Reply from Annie Burisky, General Manager at Brendoncare Stildon

Thank you so much for the lovely review. We are so proud of our ladies, they do a great job Mon-Thurs, as does our staff on a Friday. Please pass on our best wishes to your father.


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Overall Experience  Overall Experience 5.0 out of 5

The home has a relaxed and very friendly atmosphere, I always feel so welcome when I visit. I feel that the staff do actually care about the residents more as part of an extended family group and particularly enjoy the humorous 'banter' that is exchanged without loss of professional behaviour to resident
and visitor alike.


My mother can be cross and tearful with frustration and will often tell me that a member of staff has spent time with her or that they never seem to bear any grudges the following day.


The overall care and compassion in often difficult circumstances shown by the staff is excellent and I recommend Stildon to anyone who finds themselves needing residential care.


Reply from Naomi Butcher, General Manager at Brendoncare Stildon

Thank you for your lovely review of Brendonare Stildon. We are always striving to provide person centred care with our caring staff. We wish you and your family all the very best.


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Overall Experience  Overall Experience 5.0 out of 5

After the sudden onset of my father's terminal illness we as a family were faced with a dilemma. We had to decide the correct care pathway for him. We had a choice of him remaining in his own surroundings, a hospice or care home.
He needed professional medical assistance for his well being 24 hours
a day. We went and viewed Stildon East Grinstead. From the moment we arrived, we were greeted by friendly, knowledgeable qualified staff who showed us the facilities available.
Stildon is immaculate with comfortable rooms and cleaned to a high standard. My father was shown compassion by all staff members and we were content knowing he was in good hands. He was allowed visitors daily who were also made most welcome.
We as a family would like to thank all who run and work for this care home. You do an amazing job and not only provide care in such a difficult time to our loved ones but also give the family support also. Well done Stildon, we highly recommend you.

Reply from Naomi Butcher, General Manager at Brendoncare Stildon

Thank you for your very kind words. It was our pleasure and privilege to provide the support needed and we wish you and your family all the very best.


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Current Review Score: 9.8 (9.810)

Overview of Review Score

The Review Score of 9.8 (9.810) out of 10 for Brendoncare Stildon is based on a) the Average Rating and b) the number of positive Reviews.

  • a) The Average Rating is 4.8 out of 5 from 18 Reviews in the last 24 months.

  • b) The score for the number of positive Reviews is 5.0 out of 5 from 16 positive Reviews in the last 24 months.

Detailed Breakdown of Review Score

The maximum Review Score for a Care Home is 10, which is made up from the Average Rating of Reviews (maximum of 5 points) and the Number of Reviews (maximum of 5 points) in the last 24 months:

  • a) 5 Points are available for the Average Rating from all Reviews in the last 24 months.

    The Average Rating of 4.810 for Brendoncare Stildon is calculated as follows: ( (177 Excellents x 5) + (26 Goods x 4) + (7 Satisfactorys x 3) ) ÷ 210 Ratings = 4.81

  • b) 5 Points are available for the number of Positive Reviews in the last 24 months. A Positive Review is defined as any Review with an 'Overall Experience' of '4' or '5' (out of a max rating '5').

    The 5 Points relating to the number of positive Reviews for Brendoncare Stildon is based on 16 positive Reviews in the last 24 months and is calculated as per below:

    The 5 points available are broken down as follows:

    • i) 4 points are available for the first 10 Positive Reviews in the last 24 months; 3 points for the first Positive Review, and then 0.125 Points for each of the next four Positive Reviews and then 0.1 Points for the next five Positive Reviews. (1st = 3.000, 2nd = 0.125, 3rd = 0.125, 4th = 0.125, 5th = 0.125, 6th = 0.100, 7th = 0.100, 8th = 0.100, 9th = 0.100, 10th = 0.100) 3 + 0.125 + 0.125 + 0.125 + 0.125 + 0.1 + 0.1 + 0.1 + 0.1 + 0.1 = 4

    • ii) 1 point is available for the number of Positive Reviews reaching 20% of the registered maximum number of service users in the last 24 months. If this number is partially reached, then that proportion of 1 point is given. eg a Care Home registered for a maximum of 50 service users has to reach 10 Positive Reviews to receive 1 point, if it has 7 reviews it will receive 0.7 points. 20% of the 32 registered maximum number of service users is 6.4, which has been reached with 16 Positive reviews. Points = 1

  • When a Review is submitted by someone who has previously submitted a Review, only the latest Review will count towards the Review Score.

  • If a Care Home does not have a review in the last 24 months, then it will not have a Review Score.

Performance

Care Quality Commission (CQC) Rating

Date: 17 Jul 2018

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Good

  • Caring

    Good
  • Effective

    Good
  • Responsive

    Good
  • Safe

    Good
  • Well-led

    Good

Care Quality Commission is responsible for the registration and inspection of social care services in England.

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Meet the Team (5)

Katy

Katy Miller

Job Title: General Manager

Joined: 2025

I have almost 20 years of experience in the care sector, starting out as a support worker and progressing to Registered Manager. I bring a wealth of hands-on expertise and leadership to Brendoncare Stildon. My journey has been driven by a deep commitment to delivering exceptional person-centred care, fostering team development and ensuring residents live with dignity and purpose.


Having managed diverse services including nursing homes, supported living and reablement services, I am passionate about embracing innovative care practices while maintaining the values at the heart of Brendoncare. I strive to create a warm, welcoming environment where both residents and staff feel valued and supported.


Outside of work, I enjoy staying active through regular gym sessions and bike rides, which help me maintain focus and energy in my professional life. I am thrilled to join the Brendoncare community and look forward to building on its reputation of excellent care.


Louisa

Louisa White

Job Title: Deputy Manager

Joined: 2021

I have been working in care for the last 20yrs. Initially I joined Brendoncare having been recruited from South Africa in 2004. I worked as registered nurse and later as team leader until 2010 when I left to became a registered manager of a Care Home in Crowborough, East Sussex.


In December 2021, I rejoined Brendoncare Stildon as deputy manager as I knew the home to be very homely and friendly. People here go out of their way to help and support residents, relatives and colleagues.


I am married and have 2 children and 2 grandchildren. I enjoy spending time with my family and walking my dogs.


Maria

Maria Thomas

Job Title: Administrator

Joined: 2022

I joined Stildon in June 2022 as the Receptionist and moved to the Administrator role in 2023, this is my first experience of working in a nursing home and I love the relationships that we have as a team with both the residents and relatives.


Working for a charity and answering to trustees rather than shareholders means that decisions are made with the residents’ best interests at heart. Sharing our Care for Life promise with prospective residents and families puts them at ease and they can relax knowing that their loved one will get the best of care for the rest of their life.


Outside work, I enjoy reading, paper crafts, listening to music, art and spending time with my family including my two grown up daughters.


Pauline

Pauline James

Job Title: Mrs

Joined: 2023

I joined Brendoncare Stildon in 2023. It was a total change to my working career as I’d only known the inside of an office before, so to be put at the forefront of the home meeting and greeting all our visitors has been a great change. If I’d have known what a positive step this was going to be I would have done it sooner.


I’ve been married for 45 years and have two grown up children, and 5 grandchildren. We love spending time as a family creating memories - going on beach outings, holiday’s abroad, cinema and bowling to name but a few. My husband I also enjoy going to the theatre and football, be it premiership or the supporting the local town team.


Sharon

Sharon Oliver

Job Title: Well-being Coordinator

Joined: 2024

Prior to joining Brendoncare, I worked as a legal PA for several years in London. I later worked in a similar Activities role in Tonbridge Wells but wanted to work closer to home. I joined Brendoncare in August 2023. I can honestly say that, compared to the office-based roles I’ve had (as interesting as they were), this is the best job I’ve had as it’s more person-centred and I much prefer to be working with people rather than paper!


In my spare time, I get involved in amateur dramatics including doing panto. I also enjoy dancing and practice yoga and Pilates.