A 'golden age of harmony' exists between generations

The myth that older and younger people live separate lives, divided by vast cultural and technological differences has been diminished by a recent survey commissioned by The Oddfellows Insight Report.

Rather than being at loggerheads, research found that over 55s and under 25s get along famously when given the chance, with both groups keen to spend more time together.

Chief executive officer of The Oddfellows, Jane Nelson said: “Younger and older people want to spend more time together and they benefit hugely from each other’s company.

“It’s not true that these two generations generally avoid one another and many of those surveyed wanted more opportunities to meet up.

“What we appear to be seeing is a golden age of harmony between the generations as these two seemingly disparate groups are recognising that there are mutual benefits to spending time together.

The survey found that 97 per cent of under 25s and 96 per cent of over 55s enjoyed spending time with one another, often sharing knowledge and guidance on topics as diverse as social media, modern slang, dancing, knitting and tattoos.

Ms Nelson continued: “These groups are miles apart in terms of their life experience and expertise but our research found that it was these very differences that made their companionship so rewarding.

“Technology is a case in point. Today, 13-25 year olds are essential in helping the over 55s to keep up to speed with new technology, it helps bring the generations together rather than drive them apart.

She added: “In return, those in the younger age group pick up softer interpersonal skills as well as getting practical assistance with life skills, literacy, cooking and DIY.

“Our research shows quite clearly that the two age groups recognise that there are great benefits to be had from sharing their different skills and knowledge.”

However, 37 per cent of the under 25s and 29 per cent of the over 55s wanted more opportunities to spend time together, yet it has been revealed that many are starved of the opportunity to do so.

The research found that one in four of the over 55s rarely or never spend time with the other age group, while one in five 13-25 year olds had few opportunities to spend time with over 55s.

Commenting on the lack of social opportunities, Ms Nelson said: “What is saddening is that it is the over 75s who value the company of the under 25s most highly yet have the fewest opportunities to spend time with them.

“Unfortunately, it appears through our research that, as we get older, there are fewer and fewer opportunities to mix with younger people.

“Given the enjoyment and benefits over 55s derive from the company of young people, and vice versa, this is an issue more people need to be made aware of. We also need to focus attention on how to build more opportunities for old and young to come together.

“Our Friendship Month events, running throughout September, is a way in which we can help bring people together through tea parties, craft sessions, walks and trips out, activities that are open to everyone, regardless of age.”

The survey was conducted on 528 over 55s and 501 13-25 year olds which also questioned the advice the over 55s would give to their younger selves. Their three top answers were; ‘Work hard at your education, enjoy every moment and listen to your elders,’ the latter an indication that, in their youth, the over 55s valued the wisdom of older friends and family. The life advice 13-25 year olds offered their older selves included; ‘Enjoy life to the full, listen and take opportunities when they present themselves.’

The Oddfellows is a charitable organisation that encourages people to meet and enjoy social activities together. The members also provide care support, advice helplines and a range of life-enriching financial benefits.